Part Eye of a ramble.
PAY NO ATTENTION TO THE GAL BEHIND THE CURTAIN
WHERE ARE THE CROSSDRESSERS?
In the West Michigan where I live, there are hundreds of guys who are cross dressing in varying states of involvement, based on the numbers that show up in searches of just two websites dedicated to their interests.
So why don’t you see them everywhere?
The majority of crossdressers never go out, they are “closeted” for various reasons. Fear of discovery, fear of losing employment, inability to blend in, no desire to go OUT, not yet at that point on their journey, SOs not allowing it, children at home, all reasons most of the MtoF crossdressers chose or can’t go out.
I made the MtoF distinction because females at birth can wear “menswear” any time they choose. Google “men’s wear for women”. Plenty of variety. It is mainstream. Women have a hard time being a crossdresser because they can wear anything from girly girl to an extreme “tomboy”. They have been able to dress as “tomboys” for the last fifty years.
Not so for guys. Google “womenswear for men”. Not at all like “menswear for women”. And when we do dress as a woman. we have to deal with homophobic males. Females dressed like guys can go in to the women’s toilets and have no fear. A guy dressed as a woman will experience scorn, verbal rebuke, snide remarks, and even assault in a men’s toilet. Actually we can be subject to all of those just about anywhere except inside a gay bar, and maybe there too. We go out dressed like women and have to be very careful of where we go and what we do. But we are still out there. So why don’t you see us?
You do, you just don’t notice us.
The better job we do making ourselves look like women, the less likely we are going to get noticed. As I walk through the mall, just about everyone sees me as a woman. I walk like a woman, am dressed head to toe in a conservative and coordinated outfit, my posture is like a woman, I avoid eye contact and staring directly at people. Much as females do. People passing by have maybe ten seconds to look at me, usually half of that. There just isn’t time to make that determination. So they see what I want them to see and I pass by, blending in to the crowd. So it is as simple as that. We have honed our act to a point that we can blend in and go largely unnoticed. Crossdressers have been doing this forever.
So if by chance you notice one of us, think about this. To have some fun, maybe let off some steam, escape for a while, or express ourselves, we are not killing Bambi. We are not driving drunk. We are not surfing the net looking at and therefore encouraging porn. We are not coming on to some woman in a club. We are just dressing up like a woman. Think of it as guy equivalent of a woman dressing up to escape as a tomboy.
This is SUCH FUN!
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